Youth Specialties Pittsburgh – Seminary Series 1 – Post 3 – #nywc

For Seminar Series 1, I hopped around until I ended up at Marko’s Starting Right So You Don’t End Wrong.  The schedule suggests that it’s targeted for those who are in their first 2 years but I think I need to be reminded of many things after these 8 years.  Besides I like the guy and appreciate his stories.  He talked about the many misconceptions we have in youth ministry, many of them he held personally and was very up front of his mistakes.  (That’s cool because I’m still trying to figure out which one to admit as my first mistake – lol).

 

Aside from being reminded of these things, I regretted once again, not having all of my youth leaders here.  (I know, I know, I can order the dvd and play it for them) but these are some of the discussions we spend time on (sometimes too much time) in our youth leaders’ mtg.  (I just need to bring them here next year and get them saved ;-). 

Marko was gracious in answering questions that came up throughout the seminar.  A couple good questions were voiced and Marko gave some good answers ( I can update this later if anyone is interested in the Qs).  Good seminar, glad I ended up there.

Youth Specialties – Pittsburgh – Recapping General Session 1 – Post 2 – #nywc

Day 1 Recap

Got in the General Session toward the end of Newworldson’s set.  They looked like they were having a good time and people were liking them. 

Sat in up close to the band stage left of center with the speakers seemingly inches away from our ears.  Who’s dumb idea was that?  Oh mine.  I saw seats up front.  We sat in front of a couple that went to my (and my wife’s) alma-mater, Liberty University.  Always good to see fellow alumni.  

 

Starfield led us in worship and I must say, even though they are Canadian, they’re pretty good.  (Kidding, kidding, you’re supposed to make fun of Canadians.  It’s an expression of love and allows them to feel distinct in their un-americanness.  If we treated them like we treated Americans, they’d be offended that you didn’t appreciate what makes them different – you see?)

 

The speaker was Mike Pilavachi.  High energy youth pastor who’s been around from London.  He shared some of his failures, frustrations, and even a couple of things he got right.  He revealed that Matt Redman came up through his youth group and recounted a couple of stories about Matt.  He spent a lot of time talking about Jesus’ interaction and discipleship of the 12.  Appreciated he was the first speaker, brought some normalness to youthworkers and I had never heard him before.  

Youth Specialties – Pittsburgh – Post 1 – #nywc

I enjoy coming to the YS Conference.  It’s always been a great thing for me, my family & inner circle, and my ministry.  Glad to be here with some our Jr. High Pastor also named Tim and a couple of guys from my cohort at Biblical Seminary, Jeremiah, KJ and his wife, Arin. 

Each year, I look forward to this event and if you know me, you know enjoy going to conferences and lectures and seminars and whatever.   There’s a story or two in how these YS Events have shaped certain parts of my story but I’ll save that for another day, because I’m pretty tired.

Reflecting on EDC – The Sonlife Training – Post 2

As a youth pastor who loves his calling on most days, I was so pleased that our District had Sonlife Training for us.  I know it was a little inconvenient to other pastors who had to arrive earlier then the official part of the conference but I appreciated it.  Consider it a trade-off for all the business meetings you have made us sit through ;-)

 

It was so good to see Pastor Mike Harder from Branchcreek Church in Montgomery County PA lead us in the training.   Chris Folmsbe, New Kind of Youth Ministry rewrote the curriculum for Sonlife.  I liked Folsmbe, inevitably I would like the training.

 

I’ve been trying to figure out how to explain Sonlife.  It’s like student ministry but for Christians.  Let me say it like this.  You know how some student ministries don’t know what they’re doing … like at all.  Especially for those that are not professionally led or for new youth pastors.  They would gain tremendously from a day like this.  Some of it is obvious, but even if you have been in ministry for years, you can be reminded of some aspects that you may be neglecting.  At least that’s how I felt.

 

You can bring a Sonlife Training Day to your church and invite your youth workers and invite those from other churches.  (I would like to do that one day). 

Recapping Our Service Project Weekend – Post V

 On Sunday we worshipped at the Well in Feasterville (again with Evan’s group).  When  we were in between churches, my wife and I would worship there.  I have a great deal  of respect for Todd and Gary (the pastors) and loved the community and vision of The  Well. 

Generally, Todd and Gary take turns preaching.  This Sunday was an exception however.  A woman gave the message!  (I hear you gasping).  I had to laugh because in school we just read Community 101.  Gilbert Bilezakian would have been so proud.  Frankly, she did very well although she wasn’t very dynamic  (not a criticism).  Her sermon had fantastic content, out of Ephesians 1, and she quoted Dallas Willard.  I can’t complain and regarding a woman preacher – so far, I haven’t heard any complaints from my church!  We’ll see but certainly the best woman I heard preach since … hmmm …. trying to remember the last time I heard a woman say something from the platform that wasn’t a song or an announcement … wait, wait, … got it – “missionary moment”.   Hmmm …

 

Recapping our Sr. High Service Project Weekend – Post IV

That evening, we went to Bethel Church in Philly to hear Shane Clairborne.  Our students connected with a lot of what he had to say. Still waiting for them to digest it all bc I am eager in hearing their thoughts and reactions.

To say that you can’t agree with everything Shane says is about as obvious as saying that I breathe oxygen.  No one should agree with everything any moral says.  That said, I personally have a great respect for Shane’s ideas and it keeps growing.   One day, I may summon the courage to express my personal differences and questions I have with some of Shane’s ideas.  But if you asked me, should we live more like Joel Osteen or Shane then I’d throw out my hair gel, smash my LCD, give my possessions and my teeth to the poor so that no part of me would have mistaken for any influence coming from Lakewood.  (Don’t be offended, this is hyperbole.  If you are legalistic, you may have misunderstood some of our best passages of Scripture, you walking gravestone).  

So where was I?  Oh, it was good.  I took notes and plan on sharing more later.

One last thing, I’d like to express my admiration to Bethel Church for taking the heat from those I would call “narrow-minded”.  It takes some courage for a conservative senior pastor of a conservative church to bring on a guy like Shane who isn’t as conservative (although I’m not real sure that “liberal” is an appropriate term for him).  Lastly, at the church (which was converted from a movie theater) had a little book-store area and among the 30 or so books was Brian McLaren’s, Everything Must Change.  I was encouraged by Bethel.

 

Recapping our Service Project Weekend Post III

Saturday morning we served at the Sunday Breakfast Rescue Mission in center city Philadelphia with Evan’s students at Great Valley Pres.  (Back in August, Evan and a several students from his church joined us on our trip to New Orleans).

At this mission, some students helped cook the good, distribute to the homeless, while others were cleaning up the foot pantry room, organizing shelves and still while others were loading their truck with the stuff that they needed to clear out.   Not a lot to say aside from it was a good experiencing reminding us of several important matters.  

Recapping our Service Project Weekend Post II

This year we went wanted to go to Philly for a number of reasons.  But before we set out to the place allegedly referred to “The City of Brotherly Love”, we did a worship service at the Good Shepherd Mission in Paterson, NJ we on Friday night.  Our new Jr. High Youth Pastor, also named Tim (we have heard all the jokes) led worship, a student gave a reading and one of our shy freshmen girls summoned the courage to share what the Lord was doing in her life.  I preached a sermon on unity that was an extension out of what we’ve been speaking about in youth group.  Our unity must flow within us as a youth group and beyond us throughout the Body and outside the Body.  Following our time of worship we spent a couple hours afterwards hanging out with the men there listening to their stories and enjoing each other’s presence.  

 

Recapping our Service Project Weekend Post I

Sr. High Service Project Weekend was a good thing. I hesitate to use phrases like “great success” because of what that sort of language implies to me but it went very well. I really believe in the purpose of this weekend and look forward to doing more. Prior to my arrival at this church, each quarter the youth group went to some kind of camp which is fine and all but it seemed a little overplayed to me. Add that we have been trying to do service projects for the longest time but getting students to commit to the calendar was a difficult thing especially since we have weak culture of service. So as we have been trying to create a missional culture, we’ve also combined the idea of getting out of the area and doing service projects.

Last year we did various things in the New York City area like cleaned off the shelves at a soup kitchen in Harlem, helped with a children’s Halloween alternate activity at a church in Queens (while promoting the church’s health clinic!), put on a worship service at a Jewish nursing home (we told them we were Christians) and the Good Shepherd Home in Paterson.  This year we changed it up a bit.  So, here are some posts and thoughts.

From Worship Leader Magazine – "Why Are They Leaving?"

While at the Alliance Seminary Library I saw this cover of Worship Leader Magazine.  I don’t really pay attention to WLM bc I’m not one but I appreciated the cover story, entitled, “Why Are They Leaving” by Francis Chan (Crazy/Love).  Chan is everywhere these days but anyway. 

I’m not real sure he really got to why the youth are leaving, but it was a great article just awkwardly titled. 

The article contains a good amount regarding the early church and church culture then and today and acknowledges that as a worship leader, you might not have a ton of control over that.

Toward the end of the article he writes, “So, why are you telling me this?  I’m just a worship leader.  And this article is supposed to be about youth.  The answer to that is the simple fact that Jesus is the only reality that can be relied upon to reach the net generation of leaders and worshippers.  That is the answer to reaching the youth.  Not concert.  Not t-shirts.  Not rock stars, T.V. shows or movies.  Jesus.

As a worship leader, our role is to help people encounter Jesus.  But have you forgotten that you are supposed to be the tangible expression of Jesus.  Jesus doesn’t just mysteriously appear as you sing.  He’s chosen you to put Him on display by the way you live, not the way you sing (2 Cor. 5:20) …”

He goes on for a bit but that’s the gist.  What I liked about it is the reminder that we don’t have to senior pastor to be shapers of the cultures of our church.  And among these shapers is our practice of worship.  Find and read it if interested. 

By the way, if you want to know why the youth are leaving, pick up a copy of UnChristian by Dan Kinnaman.