Less Violent Imagery … in Our Youth Ministry Please

I’ve been following the Youthbytes conversation first posted on pomomusings and now on the YS blog here and  wanted to avoid a long comment so I’m creating my own post.  Having only seen this clip, this post is not to trying to be critical of the organization or of Chad Daniel.  In fact, I appreciate people from the organization like the executive producer, Berin, who gave an apology for anyone who may have been offended and made the point that 39 out of their 40 videos might be better.  

I’m pretty pragmatic on certain things, if you make video that I will draw my audience closer to Christ, then I’ll probably buy/show it even if Hugh Heffner made it.  (What else can a  Christian believe in a world when every Zondervan Bible makes Rubert Murdoch richer, right?).

My comment was getting pretty long so I just decided to make my own post.  For those who skim, point 3 is the thesis, and points 4 and 6 are my stronger points.

1. Seriously, as a youth pastor, I am thankful for organizations like Youthbytes.  For a variety of reasons,  I am also thankful for men like Chad.  We have our different gifts, personalities, etc. our ministries will reach different people, yada yada.  You know where I am going with this diversity in the Body sermon right?

2. I am thankful for the exercise of this conversation.  In no way, am I trying to criticize a person/people/ministry etc. But it is important that we rethink ideas, strategies, methodologies and it’s ok if we do it as a community.

3.  That said, my personal contention is that the spiritual warfare/culture war/Onward Christian Soldier/etc. is overdone.  This is probably my biggest problem I have in this conversation.  We tend to talk about war, violence and beating the devil type of thing a little too much.

4.  Though I admit that I am rather desensitized to violence (probably from watching Tom & Jerry as a kid), I’ve had to reexamine this aspect of my life.  I remember saying to someone, “Yeah it’s a Rated R movie.  There’s a sex scene and profanity…”  My friend replied, “Was there any violence?  Violence really bothers me.”.  I admit, I was caught a little off guard and am a bit ashamed to admit that.  I can watch a head being decapitated but I cringe (a little) when I hear the F-bomb? That’s not right.

5.  Our context doesn’t help either.  Globally we are seen as the most violent of the civilized.  While there are many pacifists, many Christians are seen as war-hungry. 

6.  Now I know this video is not demonstrating a context of blood or war but that enters our mind because of the gun.  But for me, it’s a stretch to see the spiritual analogy.  I really see it as a video to build credibility with impressionable teen-agers.  Cool gun, blowing stuff  up, I’ll listen for a few moments.  If you don’t believe me, ask yourself why a bow and arrow wasn’t used.   Indeed there is a violent imagery in Scripture.  Paul uses these analogies as well.  Jesus even says that he comes with a sword (Matthew 10).  But again, it seems a little overdone.   There’s also a lot of sex in Scripture.  My sarcastic suggestion is to shoot a video with the bikini-clad Hooters girls encouraging their audience to make a pledge to read the Bible everyday this year.  There would be a lot of pledge cards and that video would sell. 

7. From the little I know of Youthbytes, they are trying to sell Biblically grounded videos that teens will enjoy watching.  And they can probably make more money selling other things and they want to fulfill the calling God has placed on their lives.  I don’t think the creation, purchase, and showing of this video is going to ruin our students but here is something else for your consideration.  But still, It’s worth remembering that Jesus didn’t use a weapon to kill the devil when he was being tempted.  Why do I mention that?  I literally think that if the literal devil literally appeared to us that we would literally physically try to attack him.  Literally.  And we may think that because we have a lot of violence in our world and a lot in our churches.   I think a more powerful video would be how to fight evil without being violent like the turning the other cheek idea, or the entering of Jerusalem on a donkey or commanding Peter to put away his sword.   These videos may not be as appealing or as easy to make but man, they would be great for the Kingdom.

For the sake of fairness, I’ll check out Youthbytes videos.  Their reputation is on the line in the minds of a few here.  I wish them the best.  For what it’s worth, violence is overplayed in our youth ministries and while the idea is not to never use a violent metaphor but in using also the many other metaphors contained in Scriptures.

Reflecting on Marko's words from #NYWC in Pittsburgh

Mark Ostreicher, National Youth Workers Convention – Youth Specialties – Pittsburgh – 11.3.08

 

I appreciate Mark Ostreicher from YS.  I really do. For many reasons but I don’t feel like listing them.  But I’m glad that he’s the president of YS.  And being president and hosting the YS event, I appreciate that he took the last session on Monday morning when so many attendees have already left. Most presidents of organizations take the best attended session to celebrate their position and their egos but in the tradition of Mike Yaconelli and Tic Long, this is a humble expression that I appreciate.

So there we are Monday morning and Marko was rewinding the events and themes of the conference and said that he felt that he should get rid of what he was planning to say.  I do that too.  Like when I have nothing, or when I know what I have is garbage, I too pull an Eli Manning and change the play at the line.  (Just kidding, Marko has too good of a mind to pull off lame speaker antics).

 

He told us that he thought he had the pinnacle of youth minisry with this “Back to School” Bash even that brought thousands of kids out.  He would walk around and ask people, “Did you see that?  God was truly working!”  Later on, he realied that in all the years of bumping into former students and reconnecting through facebook, none fo them ever said, “That event changed my life”.

 

That’s usually my argument against Christian t-shrts and bumper stickers but I appreciated Marko using it to describe events.  Because although I rarely thrown these types of events where I rent out an amusement park, I do take some pride in the events we do. 

 

He mentioned a couple of things that he felt were more worthwhile and they were things like the communion he enjoyed with his house church.  They had great meals together, they would enjoy the quietness together, share, pray, etc. 

 

It was void of great size but deep with community and mission.  Then he said, “Small is the value in the kingdom of God.”.   Here’s some more

it’s simple in its dna and structure

            beautiful and simple presence of Jesus moving into the world

            present, not distracted.

            it’s always changing, it cannot be packaged

 

            It’s fluid because the gospel is not an idea, it’s the person of Christ.

            Christ is the midst already present,            

            We can’t conjure it up with slight of hand and amazing programming. 

But we are the equipment.  (not the youth room etc.) bc what we have is Christ the hope of glory – this is the gospel that we bring to our kids. 

            The stuff that you thought you needed is a deterrent to youth ministry.

 

I love this idea for so many reasons.  One, it celebrates all that are in youth ministry.  Most conferences dangle the carrot of numbers and status in front of you forgeting the fact that many would routinely walk away from Jesus and he spent a great deal of his time in smaller numbers.  Second, while there is a place for signage, promotion and the pursuit of better resources, it is not in the place of the heart of the Gospel.  This is something we can all buy into and it’s nice to hear it from a guy like Marko.

 

I’ll  end this post by using his closing “May you deeply blessed as you remember the real gospel in your soul.”